Dating Warning - Why Nice Guys Attract Psycho Women

I spent several years dating an overly aggressive and controlling girlfriend. Through my mistake, I'd like to give you insight on how to spot a psycho chic. There are several signs. First, let's understand the mind of a Psycho or over-controlling woman. Most over controlling women are extremely insecure.

Their appearance is so important; some spend large amounts on beauty products and clothing. And so they are attracted to people and situation they can control to boost their ego. A shy introvert guy is an ideal target. A shy guy is passive in social situations and his lack of relationship skills will make it difficult to see the warning signs.

The number one indicator is control. A controlling woman will attempt to influence your decision on friends, family and career. Psycho women will also brandish their opinion on your social circle like a knife. These signs you may not see until you're in too deep. But here are a couple of signs to note while dating.

Multiple Beauty Products Most women will have an indispensible amount of beauty products in their bathroom or dresser. A Psycho Chic will have a full blown cosmetic aisle in her bathroom. This is her attempt to conquer her social insecurities. Remember her social insecurities will come at the price of your time and life, so choose wisely. Aggressive attacks on your ego. Now this part is tricky. Every good date is filled with flirting and fun.

Some flirting may involve quick comebacks, one-liners and other negative comments. This is GOOD. That Friction builds attraction. Psychos chic on the other hand will DOUBLE the negative attacks on your ego. This is an attempt to move up the social ladder at your expense. Trouble with your social circle. Most controlling women will become combative and distant in unfamiliar social situation.

Some will mis-read events and people in your social circle. Thus every lady friend will become an ex-girlfriend in her eyes. The number one problem shy guys face is lack of social skills. Shy guys tend to overvalue the first woman that takes an interest in them. This often leads to the invitation of abuse from the person. Improving your chances of meeting the right women is simple. Learn to build healthy platonic relationships with at least five women around you. Also learn to deal with guys in a social environment. And Go on more dates. Learn to enjoy your dates even if they don't progress into relationships.